Mormons follow the law of Chastity; they believe that the intimate act of lovemaking must be saved for after marriage. If this is his first year, I believe he has at least two more years, possibly as many as four or five. Where we have just started dating less then a year now.
My wife and her family are a good example of this. If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. We have 2 school age children. You all are strong for staying but I just don't see how it is possible long term to live like this. There is no way she will may you without you going to the temple. The reality is that while God gave us a gospel of love and stands always ready to give us a helping hand, his mercy will not rob his justice. It also means that you have to give her something particular to do. Want to add to the discussion.
To me, life is all about growthвso ask yourselfвwill I grow more staying single and focusing my life on the church, or will I grow more branching out, looking at life from different perspectives, and allowing myself to see options I have not yet considered. COM you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or any other problem like wining lottery. I do not understand what makes these nurses think that they have a place in his life. Start doing little things even when you are not there. Would she be okay with having a home that is split religiously. I am Roman Catholic so I believe almost the exact same things as a regular-non mobot- type mormon This religion Mormonism has a dual identity where some believers are closed mined fools. There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime. Is there even any sex at all in this fantasy.
If your date has been an active member of the Church who is following these moral guidelines, then she will not be willing to involve herself in a sexual relationship with you. And if you do belong to a ward full of cretins, you must do everyone a favor and just ignore them until they go extinct. Her experience may or may not be typical, but it is something to consider. It is so frustrating emotionally and physically to be your faithful wife. IMO he should've been up-front about that before beginning to date you, but, sounds like you're okay with it now that everything's clear. Mormonism is not meant to be a casual part of a Mormon's life but it is meant to be the center. Mormons have a well-known code of health, called the Word of Wisdom. Some day he hopes to make it to Romania and settle down. We also do not allow harassment of those who post about being victims of rape, or who state that they are contemplating suicide. Mormons love to have fun, but they prefer keeping it clean, respectful, and something that everyone can enjoy.
