I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face. My husband and I have been married for about 4 years and together since we were undergrads, before he chose medicine as his profession. If you are willing to wait, then well and good; otherwise, it is best to move on. Best wishes in whatever you decide. But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs.
I think she felt that it was important for me to understand the types of challenges in an interfaith marriage. I would need to ask my husband again. Additionally, you need to take stock of your beliefs and acknowledge they may change overtime. Given the high divorce rate in this particular specialty, it might have helped him if there were people in the environment who questioned his behavior or at the very least, registered some sort of disapproval. Blogroll By Common Consent C.
When the weather is nice outside, I crave for a walk with my husband, but have to tell myself he is busy saving lives. I know it will get better over time. And if he meets it's after calling him for the several time. Or when I get up at 5: So far I have not brought up any of this with him because I'm trying to offer all of that support and space you mentioned and I wanted to give him the chance to do it himself.
Cousin the same age who just got married has known her husband 6 months. If your heart longs for children, a family and love- why should you stop yourself holding out for some mystical Mormon man to swoop you off your feet. If she is still Mormon and you are not, she will always secretly hope that you convert, just like you will always secretly hope she leaves the church. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. I married a NOMO after a lengthy temple marriage and divorce. Obviously don't make any commitments further in the relationship because you do not want to be married into an insane orthodox LDS family because it will cause alot of troubles.