If she says yes. If you go yourself, you'll see - those people are good people. To me, the core question is, is this person inclined toward self transcendence are the inclined, desirous, self aware enough to be selfless. It's like talking to a wall. I am active in church, I take my kids regularly, and I have callings. I am so grateful to have had the ability to instill in them that family comes first.



What a miserable state. I can see why people get a divorce when their kids get older. I can deal with the hours its when he comes home and is so burnt out it kills me. My parents met when my mom was in 8th grade and married when she was I think my sister married fastest and knew her husband at least 18 months, dating for at least half that. If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. It also seems like he's into it based on how he acts around me and the things he says.
They could fill a book, the stories I could tell. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual. Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. You just need to figure out where your girlfriend is. For whatever reason, none of them ever seemed that interested in me I freely admit this could have been cluelessness on my partand so never turned serious. Just an idea, I have no idea what would actually work for her.
I know from my own experience that God has the answers and that He speaks to those individuals who humbly seek Him. I met him today and we talked about what he wants to do in the future. When I was a teen, my first boyfriend was a convert and people would comment on that instead of how nice he was to me. At least not until they're I reserve the right to refute any teaching that I see as harmful. Who knows, maybe a little lighthearted texting is just the 5 minute break he needs. All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying.