Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Connie Wang. But the reality of the matter is that a sexy selfie that hits the spot — the kind that you keep in a secret album in your phone, upload to a private Instagram account, let your buds see, and save for really deserving textual exchanges — takes a little bit of finesse. You might have sucked at taking a normal selfie when you got your first front-facing camera, but just like how you finally figured out the angles, poses, and lighting that combine to make you look like the Lifetime Movie version of yourself and not the True Crime version , getting the hang of a sexy selfie demands some practice. And the real secret is to figure out how to take a pic that makes you not even someone else feel some type of way. While we're arguably more in control of and confident about our sexuality than ever, there's still so much we don't know about female arousal.
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It's almost impossible to look as hot as Dua Lipa does on the daily, but thankfully for us she's not afraid to show off just how gorgeous she is on her Instagram! Dua sure knows how to work the camera; whether she's posing on a red carpet on chillaxing on some rocks, the 'New Rules' star is absolute flames. Picture: Instagram. If we had a body that looked this damn good, we'd be showing it off too Dua! Always confident whether she's wearing a bikini or a jumpsuit, Dua Lipa is a total babe and can we please talk about those abs!? Loving your work Dua. We don't know how Dua does it, but even when she's in a lift she manages to look like she's just strolled out of a catalogue! We'd imagine there'd be thousands of people queueing to help Dua get to her destination in that stunning black dress.
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Copyright Singapore Press Holdings Ltd. Regn No E. All rights reserved. Men are visual creatures so photos work best if you want to get his mojo going. Go on then, strike a pose. And you in skin hugging yoga pants and a well-fitted sports bra? Rest assured, your man will be turned on. The fact that you lugged yourself to the gym , even after a long day at work, will make him appreciate your effort.
Back in the day when you wanted to take hot pictures to send your boyfriend , you had two choices: Polaroids that made every nudie look like a crime scene, or taking your photos to be developed. Which, sadly, is how I sent my first nekkid photo. Yep, I took it on my old camera, and then marched my butt down to Target and had them developed. It worked, but it means that now I live with the knowledge every day that somewhere out there is a former Target employee who probably still has photos of my teenage side boob. Fortunately, these days, thanks to smart phones, we don't have to involve a third party to get naughty for the camera. There are still things consider before sending a naked selfie, namely: revenge porn, cloud hackers, and the fact that once something is on the internet, it's there forever. But that doesn't mean you can't send your partner sexy snaps: You just have to be smart about it. It really is all about what you don't show that will get their imagination going into overdrive.