I was thinking about this last night after listening to Radio West. It's easy to be blind to deal-breaking faults when you are young and in love. If you both comfortable having different faiths, your relationship can still be rewarding and fulfilling. The Book of Abraham one admits it's not a translation. But his absence in the spiritual side of my life, and that of my mother, was very hard. Either way, if you have kids and you don't convert, she will divorce you and take your kids away from you and you will be shunned from her community. He says it is harmless and is only fantasy as there is no touching involved. I had a lot of things going on in my personal life as well, so maybe a relationship wouldn't have worked regardless. Sorry, but it just isn't worth it. I love him more than life, He says the hours will get better after residency I really hope so.
I have found strength I never knew I had but if I knew then what I know now, I might have made a different decision. Mormon girls are taught that they have a divine nature. That being said, we have built something beautiful and good, have modeled loving responsibility and accountability to our kids, and I am certain I am with the man God chose for me. Most of the time, your boyfriend will be on call or at the hospital whenever you make plans with your friends or family. I also definitely don't want her raising my future children, though, and I'll be very clear about that. You will get to mingle with a lot of new people, and who knows, maybe you will also find the guy or girl of your dreams there. And as an outsider it will be obvious to you what's going on, but here's an awesome breakdown from a couple that flipped from "we go to church every week - we will write a Mormon blog" to resigning over the new policy banning children of gays all over the NY Times this month and something that is upsetting many staunch church members a few days ago. And though most people think I'm the difficult one in the relationship they don't realize he is of stronger opinions he just let's me take the heat from outsiders. My husband is specialising in Urology.
Do you masturbate, ever. I feel pretty awful about that whole thing. If you are worries about her or her family trying to convert you, be honest. It's really cool to be able to connect with someone who shares all of those things with me. But he feels I need to stick to one career and be content. December 19, OK, you're off the hook, mine was in the 70's too, but I hadn't been to CA by then. They can't seem to deal with it, and shouldn't have to. Oh well, I'll just pretend she's not mormon and see what happens.
If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. It will definitely take patience to work through any of this with her but it sounds like she's a pretty awesome person. He isn't always around for holidays, birthdays, or anniversaries. I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them.
