I had many extremely hurtful things said to me, along with an intervention hosted by my married-in-the-temple-and-divorced grandmother. The first year is mostly research with regular hours followed by those daunting 3 years. I'm not a doctors wife - im a doctors GF - but I expect that to change soon. Sorry, but it just isn't worth it. If you have any questions about Mormonism doctrine or things or other angles on what she says feel free to message me.
Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point. Be specific every time you ask. Honestly, the thing that makes me the craziest is the missionaries. I have no sympathy for people like you. It has been a couple of months since I have seen him or even really talked to him. The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed. My dad was in the bishopric for most of my childhood, and I was never the person you describe here. He hasn't proposed and instead of saving for a ring he is going to use the money to travel to go to his friend's wedding.
Their job is HARD. That was literally over years ago. However, a few months before her exams she suddenly said that she didn't think we were right for each other and broke up with me. I've told him multiple times that I don't care how much money he'll make, but one of his big things is that he wants to provide for me and his family in the future, with that being one of his main motivators. She might not even be living according to the moral standards of the Church. If she is open to questioning her faith, perhaps she can chase you down. I definitely don't want to lead her on. Mormons love to have fun, but they prefer keeping it clean, respectful, and something that everyone can enjoy.
If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. I am very understanding about it and I'm fine with retaining some independence, especially at this stage in dating. I'm not a doctors wife - im a doctors GF - but I expect that to change soon. The Church encourages people to be a good influence on one another, and she will probably expect you to dress well for her. Secondly, if he's still in residency, he has to prevail and give it his all. I forgot to add, that if you marry and alow your children to be raised as Mormon, chances are you wont be able to be at their wedding because it will be in the temple. I think nothing really prepared either of us for fellowship though. Do you have any specific suggestions for discussion about content on LDS.