I was thinking about this last night after listening to Radio West. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her. I think more than anything, the thing that gets me is this feeling of being marginalized in his life. Listen, you are in a bad situation and it just has not come to a head yet. His job prevents you much access to him. I met my ex when he was a 2nd year resident and married him when he completed his oncology fellowship. Pray about it and follow your heart. If you are dating a Mormon man or woman, be genuinely interested in their religion.
I had this issue with my husband and I had to straight out tell him what I needed because he had no clue. I've been in a similar situation before. And after dating a few months we both knew we wanted to get married. Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future. I wish you the best of luck. Its really much harder than what I thought. My husband gives the very best of himself to the hospital and the staff and patients every day.
I realize that the answers to many of these questions may be different for every family, and that we need to continue to discuss them more as a couple as we continue to think about our future. Over the past year he has been telling me that he feels second to my schoolwork and my other responsibilities. I know what they really make, and what they really spend. When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful. For men, this will likely come after completing your mission trip, so in your early 20s at the earliest.
When the weather is nice outside, I crave for a walk with my husband, but have to tell myself he is busy saving lives. He also hints a lot to settling down with me. Before I proposed, I actually broke up with my partner for a month в mostly due to family pressure. We've been together since he started medical school. No complaints whatsoever though GF or BF and spouses of physicians quickly understand that medicine isn't a profession Many times you will be second. When missionaries come home, they are like top dog religious people. But the lies sting some people. There is no way she will may you without you going to the temple. If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. The best advice I can give is stay true to yourself.