They therefore have a high standard to work toward. It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together. All I can recommend, as a docs wife of nearly 30 years, is prayer or to book a few sessions with a psychologist. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. I deal better with inattention when he is home better than him as well. Intimacy is pretty much gone. I hope he wised up. Ask her on dates.
Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed. Some Mormons believe the Telestial Kingdom will be littered with spouses who refused to get baptized. You do not want hear in jeans if you are planning to eat at a fancy restaurant. About the time I was ready to return for my doctorate a chronic illness hit. I honoured this request and did not contact her until after her exams finished. He actually wanted them to be active in a religion and thought this was a good idea.
Mormons follow the law of Chastity; they believe that the intimate act of lovemaking must be saved for after marriage. Is your mind made up and you want justifying support. No one could compare to the man I married. I definitely don't want to lead her on. Take the time he actually can give you, and appreciate it. Ultimately there are no guarantees but I'd say it's worth a shot. She encourages me to develop my skills and talents, and provides an example in several of those areas. People should marry for love, not money.
But please also know that the people who love you are hoping you make the right decision because they want you to be happy. All that matters to her is things are how they are because god wants them that way. The one I met was full of himself, a slob, and really not that great to women. I tell her there's no pressure and we'll just see how things play out. But those days may be gone. What this guy needs is support and understanding Maybe you didn't intend it this way, but it sounds like you're assuming I'm not already giving him the benefit of the doubt, space, support, and understanding. So it will just be for this life that it may be hard to have a non-believing spouse. Maybe about a year ago.