If it were me, I would be flattered they had that much time to spend on me. Needless to say, his top choices were not near my family and friends. I'm so sorry to hear this. He was the best decision I have ever made in my life, hands down. They could fill a book, the stories I could tell. Plan on knowing their religion better than they do at all times. Hopefully they have some say in it, but I'm speaking about other churchgoers' expectations here, and probably your wife's. My wife told me she does not want to know if the church is false, so I don't pressure her.




Maybe we'll break up in a month. You need to repent and change. Please start another thread and continue the conversation. Here are a few questions you could ask her. Breaking up with someone solely because of religion is something people condemn alot on this sub when its a Mormon breaking it off with a non Mormon, but if floats both ways. But I'm trying to determine how much of that behavior is truly down to his profession, and how much of it is him not being very into me or just selfish and unwilling to compromise even if that selfishness is a byproduct of his residency, and not how he would be in other circumstances. They took an oath and it is who they are.
Unfortunately I've been sort of seeing a girl who is basically a real deal Mormon. I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you. It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage. I don't really care if she's religious or not, unless she brings it up all the time or tries to convert me. I alway understood and supported him so it was my way of being useful in the world, too. Well the pieces will all fall into place. Now a basic overview of the gospel. I have a 12 year old daughter from my first marriage and so we didn't move in with him until he and I had been together for 2 years.
What do they all do from 8am-2. The religious differences between you two are a deal-breaking fault. It seems like mormons in particular are even more crazy than the majority of crazy religious people, and the manipulation and treatment of people who wish to think for themselves and challenge their beliefs is really frightening. A forum for ex-mormons and others who have been affected by mormonism to share news, commentary, and comedy about the Mormon church. I'm quite willing to take you at your word, but my guess is that academia had nothing to do with your ex being immature. There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. You sound like a wonderful person. It is important especially when you have children to make time for your partner regardless of his job. Well in my case and at this time, some of their words and advice are really hitting home and taking root because we are yet another casualty of the residency firing brigade.