It's like a catch or something. On the plus side though, after you leave the church, you'll get to spend the remainder of your days bashing it on Reddit. I married a person, not a religion.
My parents, siblings and grandparents are all active members; as am I. And once you are done with those, ask about social issues and where she stands. I realize that the answers to many of these questions may be different for every family, and that we need to continue to discuss them more as a couple as we continue to think about our future.
Mormon girls are taught that they have a divine nature. That's the real issue. You don't want a divorce because it will hurt the kids - they love him and think he's the greatest. It seems to me like you are walking into a relationship where there is a significant disconnect from the start. Your probably thinking of a sect of the Mormons, I'm sure there is one like that.
In fact, the church is designed to help people come unto Christ, who is the only one who can change our hearts and help us overcome ourselves to come back to him. Maybe you do, too. Whatever your leaders have said, consider their counsel, give it the weight it deserves, then counsel with your Heavenly Father about your own situation. Many others have asked the same question in the past so you may want to find those and read the responses there. Post was not sent - check your email addresses.