Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else. I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now. It does kick your butt!. I adore the show New Normal and one of my favorite episodes is when Bryan decides to go back to church and the Father is so cool with him. From reading the above posts from previous posters, please keep in mind that while it helps to read and learn from each others' experiences as we are all in the same boat -- we must also make the distinction between someone's occupation and their personality or character. Be specific every time you ask. It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church.
I could draw some flip-art of a kiss on some post-it notes and send one a day. That was my experience. Follow your heart and live life with no regrets. My two daughters have each chosen a man who is emotionally and physically available, thank goodness. I have had to compromise more often than I would have liked. The standard principles of day game apply.
I have searched for a blog, or some support group for men struggling to figure out how to survive being married to a female physician, especially of an extremely demanding subspecialty. Mind control is not child's play, and the Mormon church has real people's blood on their hands for the despicable damage they've caused. When DH comes in he is still gone more than half the time.
Can someone put some sense in me. Maybe we'll break up in a month. He had the night shift last night so today was his day off and he also has research to do. How some find time for Affairs is beyond me!!. Not in endless discussions of temple marriage, not ever. There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime. Let them see the good in you, and believe that their son or daughter has found a good match.
