For example, the irish, polish and the italians basically intermarried. We are alone for many months at a time. She is instructed to have children within wedlock very soon, raise these children in a Mormon home, and devote hours each week to church activities plus Sabbath observance on Sunday. I'm so comforted by this thread. Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions. Mind control is not child's play, and the Mormon church has real people's blood on their hands for the despicable damage they've caused. I would need to ask my husband again. Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. I have recently seen too much of these false promises that people use to make others feel good. But she probably is more in love with the idea of you, than with you.
Juggle them with a working wife, a housewife with children and things become difficult. You need to do something interesting and keep her faith up. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb. Submit a new link. Our first Christmas married I want you all to know that you are loved and appreciated. Mormonism and Non-Mormonism don't link to future lives. I could never do it.
As for conversion, she just spent every waking second thinking about converting people. You are expecting him to be like your exes and you want him to be the one to chase you. Good thing is you can have multiple wives in heaven if you become exalted. The fact she's dating you while you aren't a Mormon is at least a sign of hope. The scriptures say that one of the main reasons good people don't join the church is because they just haven't been introduced to it. But from what you said, this girl doesn't sound like she is going to be content to have a marriage for time only. I am no longer the vivacious young girl……life has not been easy. I have a small child home full time with me, millions of miles away from any family.
This blog accommodates some frank admissions about that which is less than wonderful about LDS. I agree, girls, it can be a challenge to find time together. As a parent, we hope our children will make life choices that will give them the greatest chance of happiness. This means no swearing, loud talking, or making offensive jokes. Home no title About Contact. I really do have strong feelings for him and want to make this work… but I'm beginning to feel like I have no identity of my own anymore and I will forever just be, "the doctor's wife. Really, I'm interested in this too. I think it was Spencer Kimball who counselled that before marriage you should keep your eyes wide open and then after marriage keep your eyes half shut. It really can be that simple. Be thankful that you chose a man with passion and drive; realizing that his energies will not always focused on you.