Once when I saw how hurt my children had become due to his lack of interaction with them. This is the rule rather than the exception. I knew I was going to be alone much of the time and for the most part I can handle it. This also implies, there is no reason for me to further my education or career because he would prefer I have children immediately. Can they keep a job and or clean up after themselves. There are a few things I've come to accept, though: Our house will never be clean We will never be caught up on laundry We will probably always eat take out instead of cooking Sleeping next to one another is something we now cherish I will not be a young parent I'm 21 now and we don't plan on having children until our thirties I will always love him and would never make him give up what he loves, just as he would never make me do the same.
For any woman who does not want to sacrifice her career goals…. Let them explore and see the many people who love Heavenly Father and serve him with all their heart. A good doctor must be willing to sacrifice his own needs for the good of his patient and as his wife, you sacrifice as well.
This is how I felt when I married my exmo husband. Her goal is to make you mormon. Please think that there is something worse: Sometimes I feel the worst wife, mother and daughter. I am married to an ER doc and agree that having your own life, being independent, and not going into the relationship with any preconceived notions is what makes it work for us. Yes, because that is generally what is best. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives.