Because Mormons retain old-fashioned values, Mormon girls are raised in a traditional environment by good fathers. Reading your blog has helped, especially in seeing that these lonely feelings are normal. He made a big deal out of my birthday, holidays, etc. And then run from this girl if you don't think there's a chance she'll wake up. At the end of the day, nothing I say or do can help him see this. Can I add to this extremely old thread. The day could come where she has to decide between her relationship with you and her church. Being married and raising a family can be very difficult if the two of you disagree about important issues like religion. So while I believe that, in fact, non-celestial families still can be together forever, I also think that there must be great merit to qualifying for the whole Enchiladaвwhich I perhaps cannot fully appreciate at this time. I get it; I just don't buy into it.
Be specific every time you ask. No one knows your situation the way you do. I am becoming more lonely now than before. Do whatever it takes to at least learn from your relationship with your Mormon crush. Well the pieces will all fall into place. What's NOT to like about being the wife of a medical doctor.
I remember one time I did just that with a group of friends and someone saying, "Oh you have it so rough. How will your spouse feel about that in 20 years. At best they just try to include you in the community, and at worst you are constantly told that you'll be welcome "when you're ready. This came about after many hours and many days of prayer, scripture study, going to the temple, receiving a priesthood blessing, and speaking with people I greatly trust my mom, especially. They must refrain not only from sex, but also passionate kissing or similar physical contact, or any act that arouses such feelings.
Disney gives them the fantasy where they can easily achieve a standard of perfection with low risk. Dating does not necessarily mean an exclusive relationship. My number one question is about family - I want him to be able to be around for kids when that time comesso how realistic is it to expect him to be there for their sporting games or whatever they're doing. He is always on call, too stressed, too tired etc etc. In fact, your GF is probably one of the countless Mormon women who get married only to find out they have zero sex drive because of what they learned growing up.