I've been married over 4 years to a 1st year GI fellow. Be direct and get your needs met. RUN like the wind. I started dating "A" right after he graduated med school and as he started his residency.
Don't expect this to be like the others. Having married over the course of my life not one but two wonderful non-Mormon men one Jewish and one low-church ProtestantI can say that my own spirituality has been profoundly deepened and enriched by the perspective that these two God-fearing and spiritually mature people offered me, and by my participation in the observances of their traditions. There are many catholic families with these three main ethnic groups within it. But wait a minute. I often feel it's harder than being a single mom because the false hope is just torture. And of course, everyone has a different experience. I feel like I have finally found a sisterhood with a few brothers as well of people who know how I feel and what I deal with on a daily basis. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM.
If you do end up having sexual relations, she will feel guilty, and it will affect your relationship, you can count on that. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. She was a mormon and he finally joined the church at For 40 years there was a disconnect and she really viewed him as a lesser person cause he wasn't a member. Props to people who do.
Trust yourself, trust God and enjoy the beautiful relationship that you have. I am so happy I found this blog. I've told her that but maybe she doesn't believe me. Let me tell you, it is NOT any easier. She can never hang out on Sundays because she apparently spends the entire day at church. We often have issues because of his relocation every year.
