It is soooo hard. We have been together since his second year of med school so I have gone through step one and step two and all the shelf exams that were taking up his time, now I have to do the 80 hours thank God for the cap and usually he works more than that Good luck to all of you and I know we will all make it. Should I consider giving up my PhD plans, take up whatever job I can based on my commitments or I should look for somebody with whom my profession is more compatible. I do not contact my gf every day unless they are online. The church essays that address that linked at www. If you go to mormonthink. However, now that the student loans are paid off and we have a nice fancy custom home, he has decided to devote his money and time to purchasing and using new bikes road and mtnskis downhill and tele and the list goes on. They could fill a book, the stories I could tell. Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions.
There have been times in the last three years that we have had to live paycheck to paycheck so the idea of a rich doctor is antiquated in most cases. Meaning that unless you are willing to become Mormon And your savings account. I have been with him through medical school and residency for internal medicine, which was tough, but manageable. The extent of other physical activity depends on what you both want from the relationship, though in general the Mormon Church frowns on sexual contact even beyond intercourse. Learned by me in time and tears. Notify me of new comments via email. December 17, I figured it might be fun to update you kind folks on what happened.
Not in endless discussions of temple marriage, not ever. It sucks but ultimately what Mormonism does to people is it makes them value adherence to church more than their relationships with people. Is it fair for me to ask him to put more time and effort into our relationship. Maybe you do, too. I am so happy about 'starting' our life together in a few months, but I feel like I am totally setting myself up for disappointment. How long did you date him and put up with that.