With such high standards of perfection, Mormon girls want a man who validates their efforts and confidently provides directionвa man who expects them to be beautiful. So there's THAT to look forward to. But our marriage is strong, and our children are good people.
So we'll drink the beer I brought over and I give him a back massage and go down on him luckily he does return the favor in terms of physical stuff when he 's less tired and we have amazing sex. I think people get carried away with the whole social status of a Doctor which is really unnecessary. This came about after many hours and many days of prayer, scripture study, going to the temple, receiving a priesthood blessing, and speaking with people I greatly trust my mom, especially. I know a Doctor who drug his wife and 2 children across the US to begin his residency. It's a less common occurrence, but it happens. It isn't money that he is just throwing around on useless things, its for dinner movies normal date stuff that people do over a course of a month and we cram into one weekend. Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings. It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc.
Its fascinating that in so many women are defining themselves by their MD husbands like we are in s season from Mad Men. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. He will always downplay it. I moved out of sate to be with him. It is easier and more enjoyable for him to zone out in the world of sweat and toil much like his school and training and work than to get to know me. I suggest you develop a busy calender so you'll be occupied because you'll get dizzy thinking in circles. Take issues as they arise, rather than throwing away what could be a good experience for you and her based off of what might happen. For me, one of those bouncers is my marriage to the most wonderful woman alive.
You know what the official line of the church is, and what bishops and stake presidents are likely to say. If he is the right person for me, then I would wait and deal with the busy schedule in the meantime. It CAN work, to be frank.