It sucks to admit, but I broke up with him after 6 months because I didn't think there was any point if we couldn't be together forever. You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission. Much of it rang true back when my spouse was in med school, internship and residency. This blog accommodates some frank admissions about that which is less than wonderful about LDS. Lack of motivation and endless loneliness that has caused me to be a lazy 15 pounds heavier woman. Where do you find Mormon girls. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. I do my best to keep busy during the day, school, cleaning, organizing, going to the gym and my daughter. If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately.
He was lonely, as was she. She can never hang out on Sundays because she apparently spends the entire day at church. Build a life of your own but, make them your priority. There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. If everything she is taught is correct and the Mormon church is "true" she should be able to research any anti-Mormon books or movies and prove their criticisms are lies. So that may be the end of it there. You were a banker too. To prevent problems from developing in the marriage over in what faith the possible children should be raised. If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else. As Joanne mentioned, should you marry interfaith, you will have lots of help from fellow ward members on converting your spouse.
If you are not old enough to consider marriage, you should be careful about having a serious, exclusive relationship. I know people should not get married if they can't accept each other as they are. Some of my family approves of my marriage and some does not. Your man is becoming a doctor, and while he's still a resident carving his way into the field, his off days will be few and far between. I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up.
In fact, you likely will meet a few. Thanks again for the continued comments and replies to my edit. Seems he's always on call or on a totally different schedule than I.
