Let me say this so you can get an idea of just how crazy and how much your girl friend is into the Mormon religion: These are known as "garments". I knew going into this it would be difficult, so I've braced myself, but I'd be lying if I didn't say there's a lot of disappointment that comes along with the relationship. Mormonism, like many extreme religions, often stunts the growth of its members. We are very blessed. Btw, you bringing up CES letter shit before thanksgiving will guarantee a very awkward time with the GF and probably the family for the day. Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. I've been married over 4 years to a 1st year GI fellow. So that may be the end of it there.
By the way, I have had to get another job to help make ends meet. My husband gives the very best of himself to the hospital and the staff and patients every day. I'm sitting here after a hour night shift, still having to wash and fold his shirts for his return, clean the house, keep the pantry stocked up as well as support my business, feeling quite resentful of the fact that he's being wined and dined by the upper class at fancy restaurants. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. Mormon girls are raised to believe their worth is how young they marry and how many kids they have. If he weren't a doctor saving lives and had more free time, he could most definitely do YOUR job. I've been seeing a doctor for two years now. Doctor's often set their priorities as: When I give my husband the "busy as hell" attitude he gets worried about our relationship. Mormonism is not meant to be a casual part of a Mormon's life but it is meant to be the center.
That said, I like to hope that love can be more powerful than belief. That is why there are home teachers, friends, family members, neighborsвto provide priesthood blessings. If I wasn't such a fighter and survivor I would have given up on this marriage Sitting here in the afternoon, I happened to google 'being a doctors wife' because it's a lonely day and I wanted to see if its hard for others, too. Narcissism, androgyny, obsession with pop cultureвthe problems with Western women go on and on. I get a lot of satisfaction out of being a paramedic and my business is a long time dream. But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults. But on the main page of exmormon Reddit on the side bar there is a link to a site with links to all the pages on LDS. That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. However, like the comment posted on March 18th the program only had one or two wives and the ones they do have are busy with their kids.
I"am a man married to a female doctor with two daughters one is five years of age the other two and a half. I have always worked full-time and no employers ever give you any lenience. You might start drinking to ease the pain. That doesn't get better unless you humble yourself, either -- admit you might be wrong. Now to answer you question more directly, I believe you should discuss your fears with him so he understands exactly where you want your relationship to go for both of you, otherwise you might grow resentful of him and he may have no clue as to why. They value femininity, motherhood, and masculinity in men. Being a doctor's wife is difficult, demanding, and lonely. Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion. He was also born in Russia during the 80s and did not come to the United States until so we sometimes deal with cultural differences as well as religious. Do you believe in the Gospel as taught by the Church.
