I understood the words well. That's why they dig in so deep and why my heart response is to send comfort. I do not know how most folks judge their contests. I do think this is praise worthy!
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Love is supposed to be kind and patient. Love is supposed to be caring and amazing. The way you loved me was none of the above. The way you loved me, wasn't love at all. It was painful. It was draining. It was horrific.
Yes, we had been in a rough patch for sometime with all of the changing happening around us, moving, starting residency, etc. The struggle is real. Husband has affair with me, after telling me that he and his wife have grown apart, and we were together for five years. Either way, if you have kids and you don't convert, she will divorce you and take your kids away from you and you will be shunned from her community.
I let things slide often not thinking it is worth a battle. Anecdotes vs a much larger sample size. She was fine marrying in an LDS church instead of the temple, didn't want to convert me, and most importantly didn't try to change my beliefs or opinions. He is married to his job right now. I was definitely taking the "Tough love" approach because I've read countless times on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and that they weren't, themselves, orthodox. I am coming to the belief that the quality individuals in medicine are the self and family sacrificing ones, truly dedicated to their profession. You insult my husband who is as faithful as they come and does everything he can to spend time with us and to help out. They have heavy-handed laws, free handouts, unfair advantages for getting jobsвa loud feminist illusion spoon fed to them. YOUR prayers are just as efficacious as a priesthood holders are. I have searched for a blog, or some support group for men struggling to figure out how to survive being married to a female physician, especially of an extremely demanding subspecialty.