I have been dating a great guy for about a year now, and we started dating shortly after my parents died of cancer. You can't reason with fanatics, and you got one. On the other hand, if you believe God is bigger than we can imagine, and is not constrained by religious dogma, you have as good a chance as any at a happy, thriving relationship. How do Mormons feel about contraception. It almost feels like a single parent family. Thank you for your sacrifice. Imagine if I had a panic attack every day at 10am?!.
I agree we shouldn't continue if we can't accept each other as we are. She might want to follow the 'virgin until marriage' part, or she may personally decide to forego following that in secret. I am so sorry for the pain you are going through. He is on call ALL the time, he arrives home 9 pm and barely sit down for diner and then gets called away, then again 2 am heart attack. We should all remember this is a human being, and she has a brain. No drama-inducing crossposting of content found in other subreddits, or vice versa.
I have finally learned to pray to change my heart, not his. You are atheist and that's not changing. You don't have to believe them yourself, but you need that respect in thought as well as action, and you need to frame this as your own journey because you can only change yourself.
Trust Building Exercises for Couples. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset. Ask questions, try to find out as much as you can. So it will just be for this life that it may be hard to have a non-believing spouse. Attacking other posters is not allowed, but this forum recognizes the difference between a belief and the person holding to that belief.