She suggested instead watching something that was produced by the church itself. Being the first in his family to make it, he now supports the lives of those who didn't. That is the million dollar question. I've been thinking more about your situation and another thing came to mind. Thanks for springing that one on me OB. She is going to be taught for the rest of her life in the church the importance of missionary work and eternal families, and Priesthood in the home. I really like him, and I think we fit together well with personality, values, and life goals. She sacrificed two years of her life to convert people to the religion. Break up with her.
If she expresses interest in converting, be prepared to talk about your beliefs, and help her find ways to learn about and follow them. Catholics basically married catholics and protestants basically married protestants. There is no question this is the true church. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. I can honestly say it has been the worst decision of my life.
If not, it's better to find out now than to continue with something that isn't satisfying you. If you can love them unconditionally with how they are now, then I say go for it. He says that I should be happy that he is giving me all the comforts of life. Too bad she couldn't handle the guilt and remorse.
That's all she thought about for 18 months, plus the months leading up to it, and winding down. I'm married an interventional cardiologist; and I wish I only knew 5 years ago before she started her fellowship what the heck I was signing up for. He is still in residency. Men and women must be willing to accept what they know to be true. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church:. I do not threaten lightly. I am the same good faithful woman I always was, just on a different path than I ever expected, one full of insights and blessings I never knew could exist.