Some Mormons believe the Telestial Kingdom will be littered with spouses who refused to get baptized. I am deeply hurt and am a very lonely doctor's wife. By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead. We strive to improve each other. My husband has gone from proselytizing and thinking he knows it all to a real spiritual seeker, albeit with a strong testimony in the church. I haven't talked to him about it yet because I was hoping things would change once we dated for awhile and his feelings for me deepened. I would think that a comprise between you getting missionary discussions and her reading the CES letter would be even. Its great to hear advice from those who know.
You are the woman of valor eshet khayil sung about by Solomon in Proverbs 31 http: Good for you, good for your husband, and definitely good for your childen. You are looking for evidence that a. We will occasionally go as long as days without talking at all, and when we do sometimes we go a full day between responding to each other's texts. The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him. I love how this applies to ALL marriages. My wife and her family are a good example of this. For men, this will likely come after completing your mission trip, so in your early 20s at the earliest. Religious differences, however are real. That contributes to status in her culture.
I think more than anything, the thing that gets me is this feeling of being marginalized in his life. There are a lot of single people in the world. We have been married for a little over 3 years. Mormon chicks have way damaged views on human intimacy. My wife and her family are a good example of this. We all wondered why should would go against such a blessing. Mixed races, however, are NOT tied into opposing beliefs and mixed races don't try to "convert" each other. I'm blessed that he is well and doing so well in school. I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot.
Maybe watch "Going Clear" with her. On top of that, we don't have personal time for each other and as a family often. Having said that I'm not looking to get married any time soon, so no. I can't emphasize this strongly enough. It's easy to forget why I chose to be with him in the first place. If this is someone you are to marry, then the rest will take care of itself. You'll be richly rewarded. Money is not everything although the ex certainly has her share. But I was unusual in that I never really wanted to convert my husband I was worried I'd have to divorce him if he turned true Mormon and he didn't need me to believe way he does. Glad I found this post.
