January 15, My recurring message for is:. It's the foundation of your feminine power. Leaning back is both the secret and the answer to love and attraction.
Eliminate the blind spots in your life so you can flourish
Have you ever been told that if you want to find a quality man…you need to lean back and let him lead? For more than 10 years now this approach has been in vogue. Drop the hankie. Or wait no matter how long it takes.
The answer, or part of it, may have a lot to do with our leaning. Leaning back is when a person is somewhat detached, responds to texts rather than sending them first, accepts or rejects suggestions rather than proposing them, you get the idea. I explained the differences between masculine and feminine energy in an earlier post. Most men are generally masculine at their core. They used to be hunters. They are therefore more likely to develop romantic feelings for a woman who makes them feel like a man, who lets them do the chasing. The problem is, a lot of us, when we like a guy, we always want to text him first, say hi first, make plans, and this takes away the polarity and the excitement of the chase for him. However, we lean forward with guys we are interested in, and that chases them away. You feel better.
As soon as we feel the space between us getting wider — we instantly begin feeling anxious, insecure and scared — then we instinctively want to close the gap. It makes us look needy and desperate — any kind of convincing behavior will make a man want to run far far away — as fast as he can! If only we could — but how do we do that when we feel the way we do about our man? Towards the end of the year after Sweetest Day he started slowly pulling away..