In many ways, she was everything that I ever wanted in a spouse, but in other ways she was not what I ever expected. However, for me, there have been some perks too. I want to do that though with my husband involved, not be married and be like a single mum. I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up.
If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. You will have to make sacrifice your happiness a little. I knew a couple in my last ward who got married in their mid 20's.
When he comes home he's so exhausted and just wants to veg out and this leaves me alone again. Keep in touch, keep it light and understand he is under a lot of pressure right now. Why Mormons don't drink wine or coffee. Do some research of your own as well, so that you know a little more about the person you are dating. BUT it could easily have gone the other way. We need to come to a decision pretty soon and I really need some insight.
Where do you find Mormon girls. Not the end of the world. It's not that she doesn't believe you right now, but it is a bone she will never drop. Anyone who's a decent human being should be able to know right from wrong and act accordingly. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed. I am also certain that there are callings and opportunities that I would have had, were I married to a faithful LDS woman, that I have missed. I love talking religion with him and I have never pressured him to change his habits or anything else about him.