And frankly, you feel like such a loser. He's a devoted father and every ounce of free time goes to his kids. They could fill a book, the stories I could tell. Welcome to TwoXChromosomes, a subreddit for both serious and silly content, and intended for women's perspectives. So if you marry a doctor do not have low expectations, but learn early to take third parties out of your marriage even if you have to call them directly and tell theey do not matter to me. Would she be okay with having a home that is split religiously.
He has let me be a stay-at-home mother while trying to launch my own business and has offered love and support every step of the way. Getting things done, solve every problems, started my day with long a to-do list daily. I have been reading this blog for a while now but this is the first time I have felt I needed to add my two cents in. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined. It's all about timing, and you're in two different places. Me doing everything around the house, running all errands, and working full time doesn't compete with the high stakes work he does and he doesn't understand how hard I am working also because of his job. I've told him multiple times that I don't care how much money he'll make, but one of his big things is that he wants to provide for me and his family in the future, with that being one of his main motivators. By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead. And of course, when it happens, no one the leaver or the faithful spouse could have predicted it.
Then the girl decided still not to date him after all. All the shopping, cleaning, cooking, laundry, social planning, trips, any children that we may have and work full time too?. I have observed in relationships among friends and family inside and outside of the church that holding a temple recommend does not guarantee a strong, happy marriage. It's a heart-wrenching story. Find a good man first, one that you can trust and feel comfortable building a future with, and then worry about the profession later.
That contributes to status in her culture. Does he have a faith similarly conversion-focused as I could see that being a challenge. All taken care of by us, the Dr. I love him more than anything, but lately, the lack of real time together and the stress of his work impacting how I am made to feel like I'm on eggshells when we do get together almost seems like to much to bear. And I learned how freeing that is. I'd rather marry a rich doctor and let him have his affair s on the side just so long as I don't have to work anymore. But I ultimately leave it to him most times. She views patriarchy as a quality of God. I see a future with him but I'm not sure whether I can handle it. I'm glad you both have found a way to get past the incredible forces that are working against you.