Cold approaches on Mormon girls are challenging. It is how she is programmed and it is a fundamental tenant of the religion. We just celebrated our 11th wedding anniversary We have 5 children and like so many I feel alone most days. They will teach the girls that sex is bad and wrong, which is something they will have trouble putting behind them when they eventually do get married. I dated non mormon men. My boyfriend is in his second year of residency, and I'm still adjusting to this new situation.
This makes them overwhelmingly successful wives and mothers. There is rarely minute that goes by where I am not thinking about him in some way. Sure I have met alot of douche bag doctors who have no morals, think they are 'it' and you know that they feel free to cheat whenever. My husband has gone from proselytizing and thinking he knows it all to a real spiritual seeker, albeit with a strong testimony in the church. Why is it up to the wife or girlfriend to make it work and face being lonely forever. Why would you behave any different now. He learned that I didn't pick up on ambiguity and that I took it personally when he didn't show consideration for me during the times that it was possible to.
Life is a journey and going through it with a true partner, and a mutual respect for curiosity, is so far greatly rewarding. Consider a mix of activities that are inexpensive, and allow you to talk and learn about one another. My boyfriend is currently in his third year of medical school. When I hear some of the issues going on in Mormon Land, I usually say to myselfв. It may not seem like a big deal now, but eventually it will probably surface that at best, the church impacts and influences her behavior in almost every area, at worst, it dictates it. She seems to be ok with that, and wants to continue our relationship, and also talks about wanting marriage and children, and raising those children to be mormon like her even if I'm not religious. We are talking about kids and I know it will all fall to me.
My wife told me she does not want to know if the church is false, so I don't pressure her. He of course had to check his emails while we were on vacation Maybe I have to accept it Maybe that's why so many I know live separate lives I feel each of your words. That's the real issue.